Real growth doesn’t come from pushing. It comes from choosing. If you push yourself to go to the gym all you will do is grow your muscle. If you push yourself to do the work all you will do is do the work. But if you choose to go to the gym your muscles will grow and your mind will grow. You will be joyous doing it. Same goes for doing the work. If you choose to do the work not only work gets done but you will also be joyous doing it. The freedom of living is to make choices because you want to. Not because you must. Not from desire to obtain anything but just because you choose to.